Quitting Smoking: Preventing Slips or Relapses

A slip means smoking one or two cigarettes after you have quit smoking. It usually happens in the first week after you quit. It doesn't mean that you will start smoking again. But it means that you may need to do something different, such as try a new treatment or get support.

A relapse is returning to regular (usually daily) smoking after you have tried to quit. Relapse is common. It means that you need to pay attention to those things that led to your starting to smoke again and to avoid those things the next time you try to quit.

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A slip is a warning sign that something is not quite right with your quit attempt. A slip may lead to a sense that you have no control and, possibly, to more slips. Having several slips in a row or facing conditions where you are seriously tempted to start smoking again increases the chance that you will relapse.

Whether you have a single slip or a full relapse, smoking again can make you feel bad about yourself and can trigger depression. If you slip, try to think of it as an opportunity to correct yourself before it leads to a full relapse.

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Certain situations may tempt you to smoke. These are called triggers. Learn to recognize when you might slip, and plan ahead to cope with those situations. Think about when you slipped in the past. You may be more tempted to smoke when you:

• Are around others who are smoking.
• Drink alcohol.
• Feel angry or frustrated.
• Are under a lot of stress.
• Have gained weight.
• Are at a party.
• Have easy access to cigarettes.

Are there other situations that make you want to light up a cigarette?

Resisting triggers and avoiding relapse

Here are some things that may help:

• Write down all of your triggers, and have a plan for your two or three main triggers. Either avoid the triggers for a while or find a way to cope with them.
• Stay focused on quitting smoking. Don't try to achieve other goals while you are in the process of quitting. For example, don't try to lose weight while you are trying to quit smoking.
• Reward yourself for milestones or small successes. This may mean celebrating an hour, a day, or a week without smoking.
• Get support often. Keep in close contact with those who support your efforts—family, friends, your doctor, or a support group. You can even pick up the phone and call a support hotline when you feel the urge. Most states have these.
• Think about the times when you usually smoked, and find other things to do instead. That may mean changing your routine, chewing a piece of gum, or doing some other activity that you enjoy. Be creative.
• Don't smoke—not even one drag. If you continue to slip, one puff can lead to another and another.
• Consider a treatment, such as medicine, support hotlines, or a support group, if you are having trouble managing your triggers.

Getting back on track

Avoiding a slip is best. But if you do slip, it's important to respond to it carefully so you don't start smoking regularly again. Here are some ideas that may help you get back on track:

• Try to figure out why you slipped, and make a plan for what to do the next time that happens.
• A slip is a brief return to an old behavior. You are not a smoker just because you slip up a few times.
• Don't think of a slip as a sign of failure. Many people who have quit have a few slips at some point. Don't give up on your quit goal.
• Get support right away from a person or support group you trust.
• Make it hard to smoke. Avoid places where you can easily ask someone for a cigarette. Don't buy a pack.
• If you are tempted to smoke again, make yourself wait 2 hours. Then decide if you really need the cigarette.
• Look at your list of reasons for quitting, and remember why you wanted to quit in the first place. Then take control again.
• Think about past situations when you were strong and resisted temptation.
• Consider using other resources to help you quit, such as taking medicines or talking to a support-hotline counselor on the phone.

If you are taking medicine or using nicotine replacement, keep doing so unless you go back to regular smoking. It can help you get back on track.

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Now that you have read this information, you have the tools to avoid slips and relapse when you quit smoking. Congratulations on making the move to a tobacco-free life. If you need support or have questions about this information, talk to your doctor. Ask about the resources available in your area.

If you would like more information on quitting smoking, the following resources are available:

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