From the bystander who found him, to the ambulance crew who transported him, to the neurosurgeon who operated on him, the care was spectacular. The system worked. He's now a thriving first year medical student, and his recovery will remain one of the greatest gifts our family will ever receive.
As frightening as times like these are in our lives, they teach us the power and promise of gratitude.
Here are three things difficult experiences have taught me:
- First, it's when we're vulnerable we most fully understand we can't do it alone. We see our connection to others and more fully appreciate their skills, talent, and dedication. (In fact, my son's neurosurgeon, Professor Florian Roser, followed me to Cleveland Clinical Abu Dhabi where he is now Chief of Neurosurgery.)
- Second, vulnerable situations teach us to take help, not just give it. That's humbling, and not always easy.
- And third, feeling profoundly grateful makes us want to pay it forward. We deepen our resolve to be there for those who need us.
We’re all going to face some tough times. To the extent they help us better connect to others, learn how to accept help from others, and give us the drive to pay it forward—those times make us stronger and deepen our humanity.