HPV-related tonsil cancer: Embracing a new normal

For nearly four decades, David Staley has called Park City home. An avid skier, musician, and singer, he came to Utah for the mountains but found much more along the way. When he began noticing tightness in his jaw and throat and changes to his singing voice, he knew something wasn't right. An evaluation confirmed he had HPV-related tonsil cancer, and suddenly life looked very different than he had planned.

The diagnosis came during a meaningful season of life. One week after receiving his diagnosis, David travelled cross-country with his youngest child who looked to pursue their dreams in a new city. That time together created memories that became even more meaningful as he faced uncertainty about the future. When he returned home, he began radiation treatments and chemotherapy, focusing all his energy on healing and recovery.

Finding comfort in music

Throughout treatment, David leaned on many of the things that had always brought him joy, including music. A guitar player for many years, he even arranged his chemotherapy infusions so he could continue playing while he received treatment. Music became a source of comfort and connection, helping him maintain a sense of normalcy during a challenging time.

Supported by compassionate care

David was equally grateful for the people who cared for him. From his physicians and radiation team to nurses and technicians, he felt supported every step of the way. Their kindness, encouragement, and willingness to answer questions helped make a difficult experience easier to face. Looking back on his treatment experience, David said, "It was about as good as I could have ever hoped for."

He also discovered the power of community. Family members, friends, and neighbors rallied around him, helping with rides to appointments, bringing meals, and offering support when he needed it most. Their generosity reinforced an important lesson: accepting help means you don’t have to face cancer alone.

Moving forward with hop

Today, David describes life after cancer as embracing a "new normal." While some challenges remain, he is grateful for the care he received, the people who stood beside him, and the opportunity to keep doing the things he loves. As he reflects on the journey, one lesson stands out: "It's important to realize that it's okay to ask for help."

His story is a reminder that even in life's most difficult moments, hope, healing, and human connection can help light the way forward. 

Link: Watch his inspiring story of resilience, healing, and embracing a new normal here.